Answering a question on children born with disabilities, Sadhguru says that suffering has nothing to do with the handicapped. Being born with a disability means that person is special in some way. The child usually doesn't go through that much suffering, it is the parents who become pained that their child is not like other children. Suffering doesn't happen because of someone else, but essentially because things don't happen the way you wish.
Quotes from this Video
“A child is incapabale but not suffering.” —Sadhguru
“You want the whole existence to happen the way you think it should be – it will never be so.”